Beginner’s Guide to Anal Toys: How to Start Playing with Your Butt Like a Pro

As anal sex becomes less taboo, more people are exploring the intense pleasure the butthole has to offer. Whether you’re gay, straight, male, female, experienced or just curious, anal sex toys can deliver a whole new level of sensation—whether you're flying solo or playing with a partner. At BEISAR, we know anal play isn’t just about sticking something in—it’s about doing it right. With so many anal sex toy options—plugs, beads, dildos, prostate massager—it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. That’s why we’ve created this no-bullshit guide to anal toys: what each one does, how to use it safely, and the mind-blowing ways they can make you climax harder than you ever thought possible.

These are strings of beads (usually made from ABS plastic or silicone) that increase in size as they go in. As you slowly insert them, your butt gently stretches. But the real magic happens during anal orgasm—when you pull them out bead by bead, each one triggering a pulse of pleasure as it passes your sphincter. Types of Anal Beads:

● Non-Vibrating Anal Beads: Perfect for beginners. They range from tiny to medium size, and you can even add external vibes for extra thrill.

● Vibrating Anal Beads: Like BEISAR’s Pamela Anal Beads—each bead vibrates as you insert, and when you pull them out during orgasm, it’s wave after wave of deep stimulation.

● Pro Tip: Always use beads with a ring handle or flared base. No base = potential ER visit.

Anal dildos are all about that thrusting, penetrative sensation. While most dildos are designed for vaginal use, not all are safe for anal sex. Things to look for:

● Must have a flared base—your butthole can suck it in during climax, and without a base, it could disappear.

● Warm up first. Dildos don’t taper like Anal butt plugs. Use a finger or a small plug first to prep.

● Training for size? Choose one close to or slightly larger than your partner’s size and work your way up.

Pegging = a woman using a strap-on to penetrate a man anally. It’s 2025—gender roles are old news, and power play is in. Pegging sets come with a dildo, harness, sometimes even sexy lingerie. Try it doggy style, missionary, while he begs for it—the possibilities are endless.

1. Anal Hooks: BDSM’s Hardcore Favorite

Anal hooks are curved metal hooks with a ball on one end and a ring on the other. They’re used in bondage scenarios where control and exposure are key. The ball sits inside the butt while the ring can be tied to ropes or held. They’re intense and not for everyone—but if you’re into control play, they’re a must. Play safe: Use tons of lube, insert slowly, don’t go deep. These are serious tools.

2. Cock Rings: Boost Your Butt Game

Not technically an anal sex toy, but cock rings can seriously improve your anal experience. They restrict blood flow, making erections harder and orgasms stronger. Great for solo or partnered play.

Anal butt plugs are designed to stay in place and provide continuous stimulation. Whether you’re jerking off, fucking, in public, or just enjoying the pressure—they deliver. Anatomy of a plug:

● Tapered tip for easy entry

● Neck to hold it in place

● Wide base so it doesn’t get lost inside

How to Use:

● Use lots of water-based lube

● Breathe and insert slowly

● Pull out during climax for next-level pleasure

● Always clean thoroughly (toy cleaner or warm water + mild soap)

Types of Anal Butt Plugs:

● Jewelry Plugs: Add sparkle to your ass with stainless steel or crystal bases

● Tail Plugs: For pet play lovers—adds a playful, kinky edge

● Weighted Plugs: Great for wear during sex or even a sneaky trip out

● Glass/Metal Plugs: Hard, smooth, and can be heated or chilled for temp play

● Textured Plugs: With spirals or bumps for extra internal friction

"Vibrating butt plugs help relax the anal sphincter muscles and can stimulate the G-spot or P-spot. They're especially beginner-friendly because the vibrations ease tension while stimulating the sensitive nerves inside and around the anus."

● Entry-Level Vibes: Slim, short, and gentle

● Advanced Models: With rotating beads that mimic rimming sensations

● Remote-Controlled: Let your partner buzz your ass during dinner and pretend everything’s fine

Inflatable butt plugs start small for easy insertion, then expand like a balloon once inside. They gently stretch the sphincter and inner anal canal—making them perfect for beginners training for anal depth, size lovers who crave that intense “stretching” sensation, and a favorite tool in many BDSM scenes.

Important: Inflate slowly. One squeeze at a time. Too much = damage. To deflate, twist the release valve.

The prostate responds incredibly well to pressure and vibration. When you hit it right, it produces a different kind of orgasm—deep, full-body, and often dry (no ejaculation). Tips:

● Warm up with fingers or a plug

● Use tons of lube

Play with angles until you hit the spot

These Rimming toys feature rotating metal beads at the base to mimic the feeling of a tongue licking your butthole—plus vibration. It’s like having a sub working your ass while you sit back and melt. Perfect for:

● People who love rimming but have no one to do it

● Remote play—wear one to work, climax while typing emails

● Anyone who gets off on the humiliation of being tongue-fucked

1. Lube, lube, lube: Your butthole makes zero natural lubrication. Use lots of water-based lube. No silicone lube on silicone toys!

2. Go slow: Always warm up first. Start small. If it hurts, stop.

3. Flared base or bust: No base = toy might disappear inside.

4. Clean it up: Wash toys after every use—warm water + soap or antibacterial spray.

5. Use condoms: For easy cleanup or sharing, pop on a condom and toss after.

6. Empty your bowels: Poop first. Maybe even douche, especially if you’re planning a long session.

Pick the right toy and discover pleasure from newbie to pro. Your ass is way more fun than you think—no shame, no taboo. Just good, filthy fun.